Conditions vary. After surgeries, cysts, endometriosis and more, we failed IVF 3X with miscarriages. There is no "choice" in IVF. There is no support for couples in it (like tax dollar support to bomb Gazans, etc) We also "failed" adoption, due to our family medical treatment which birth mothers had to "approve." There is no "choice" in adoption, because the expensive middle-men and birth mother can sort of "choose,"

You don't get your money, or heart, back.

Now, there is no "choice" for those desperate who need abortion. Forced birth or stigma is not a choice, either.

It's about time women and family are allowed to be seen as full human beings. And, given full CHOICE