Every woman has to be alseep in her own safe home, when a disgruntled stalker breaks in with a club, and gives her a concussion before stabbing her rescuer (my boyfriend at the time.)

After this event, I resoned correctly that I should NEVER be afraid of being attacked in this world. Therefore, I was able to do what I want, go where I want, be what I want, without any regard as to what others judge. The attacker is the criminal. Own you own body proudly, and don't let him win.