Question: if men dont hear with reasoned, rational thought, why do we need to stop stating facts?13Fractured_CanaryChristyl Rivers, Phd.Nov 6, 2018·1 min readI’m a psychologist. People, all people, do not hear with reason. We are natural at defensiveness. We have to work hard, as we should, to hear one another. The dialogue is too important to ever ignore.