Just want to support you in this viewpoint. So very many men don’t take no, as an answer. or if they do, they accuse you of being a tease.
It is quite evident from every women I have ever spoken to (I’m a therapist so hear tons of stories) that if you enjoy kissing or affection, you are not allowed to say “No” about what happens to your own body to a further degree.
That said, most men are only guilty of not supporting survivors, because they can’t comprehend someone doesn’t want sex with them.