Lot has a 'lot' to answer for, too. He offered his teen age, virgin daughters to be gang-raped (supposedly sodomized). Also, Lot's wife was not likely to realize she would become a pillar of salt for looking back at her homeland. The stuff that women go through shows again and again, they are just objects, slaves, and property.

Lev. 2013: I am also convinced that 'lying with a man as one would with a woman" refers to a man humiliating, or using another man. Unacceptable. An abomination. We have women for that.

Domination has its costs to men and women.