Many seem to regard that when a woman does not say an absolute, unqualified, unambiguous, and clear “NO” that it’s normal, even safe, to assume she means “YES.” It is not.

This is an issue, apart, but not entirely unrelated to, more serious sexual misbehavior. She is required to mindread that he intends to go further. He, is often excused for not being a mind-reader, however.

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