Thanks Tessa for your straightforward thoughts.

Most others see it this way: Being against the patriarchy is FOR men and women. It is against a system, not a sex, or a gender. It is against misogyny and the system that ranks men, rather than respecting all gifts.

Likewise, feminism is for men and women. It is for human rights, not just female rights.

Finally, and this is the most important: Nature is not cruel. Nature, like God, is neutral.

Nature invented love, also, parasitic wasps