This has happened for most women I have ever met in one way, shape, or fashion. Some severe, some not. It is the leading factor in why rape is 98% non-reported. We love our friends, we hate ourselves (the shamed part of self). Women should be so grateful for #MeToo, even with its backlash and bro excuses. If you don't think women are shamed just for being women, check out Iran and Amini's death and subsequent more shaming and deaths the world over. It's time we stopped the shame.