Very good thoughts. There are always more solutions, and more ways to keep finding connection and dialogue.
As for #Me too, it is very, (See my Oct 3 Many Women….) very needed. Women will find the best men to ally and to help with our mutual human cause. Toxic programing is a much more useful term, as it affects more than one gender deleteriously.
Call out culture does need to become ever more mutually beneficial and enlightening. This means we need all hands on deck, of course.