We cannot free any person who is oppressed without the cooperation, creativity, connection, and collaboration of ALL people, all genders. I always say "Some men" but writers do often say "men" when they mean non-feminist men. There really are a lot of non-feminist men, despite our best efforts!

Another huge mistake is that people use the word patriarchy to mean men, and they use the word feminists to mean female feminists.

Words DO get in the way. People, just aspire to free all and be dictionary based, reality-based feminists.