Women and men are different. Also, both want freedom, love, parity, etc. Nature has seen to it that diversity is strength. Nature does not see everything as a "construct" but does see that humanity (and only humanity) cooperates through shared stories--this leads to roles.

Your story is not the same story most feminists have. I would say this is especially true of male feminists, but also those of us who are cis, het, programmed, etc women who LOVE men and respect magnificent masculinity as much as we crave respected femininity.

CHOICE, not enforced birth, and/or careers, is always equality's first priority for all beings, all sexes. Freedom of life choices.

All that said, your story and voice also matters. so keep learning and keep writing.